A New Kind of Pilgrimage

Friends on the Outside

It was a beautiful day.  The sun was out, fall colors on the trees and the air warm and light. Kent and I sat outside eating lunch.  We had been to this place before and the food was pretty good, today we came for the seating.

As we were finishing our meal we noticed several of our “friends” as Kent and I have taken to calling them.  Homeless folks who we have gotten to know through the morning program we participate in at the Church of the Reconciler.  After sitting by a fountain for some time they crossed the street and headed towards us.

Our level of anxiety rose with each step as the group approached.  What should we do?  Clearly we have enough money to afford to eat lunch as we’re sitting outside finishing our meal.  Will they recognize us?  What do we do if they ask us for food?  We’ve already learned that giving out money is not good because it often supports addictions.

Still I don’t have enough money that I can buy food for six individuals.  Nor do I have any leftovers to offer – and if I did which person should get them?  As they drew near Kent and I decided to duck down and pretend to talk to each other.  The hope was that we wouldn’t be noticed and placed in an awkward situation.

As our friends passed by no one appeared to spot us.  We were in the clear, except for our conscious.  Recounting the story to our gracious host later, he agreed that we faced a difficult situation.  He was glad we had been provided with the experience.

God’s guidance in life’s questions, Eric :p

November 21, 2006 - Posted by anewkindofpilgrimage | Out of the Comfort Zone | | 3 Comments

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  1. Hey, you two!

    SURPRISE!!!!!! We miss you. We pray for you everyday and although we know you are doing well, through Megan, we can’t wait for you both to return home to us soon!

    Eric, you are so much like Lynne is scared me. You need to realize that as much as you’ve chosen Christ, he chose you. And, for a very good reason. People don’t want to use you, they just want to be near you – to draw strength and comfort from your presence. They see and feel him through you. You are a true vessel of Christ. It is so rare, but both of you have “it.” Why do you think it is so hard for everyone to let go of you, both of you, once you have entered their lives. It is not by some twist of fate or simple circumstance. It was meant to happen for a reason.

    You came to Salem to bring Jesus, along with Lynne and Jenny, back into My life and into rest of our floudering lives. You came to bring love, joy and grace into the lives of my baby girls (who love seeing your face on the monitor!) when you speak about Jesus (when they were there). Sorry! You make a mark that is everlasting!

    It is not ego, it is not yours to understand or even for you to try to figure out. It is up to us to let you know that you have a gift. A gift of love, generosity, kindness and a light that I hope burns brightly for always, that touches many because we need it.

    I just thank God that he brought you to us, even for a short time. Because, however short the stay, you will stay in my heart forever!

    Be safe…

    Love your friend,
    Kathy Jo

    Where do I send more cash?????

    Comment by Kathy Heisler | November 21, 2006

  2. Hey Guys,

    Just wanted you to know that I was checking in on you and that I’m praying for you. I hope God will guide and lead you to the experiences he knows you need to have.

    God Bless & Love you guys!!!

    - Allison

    Comment by Allison Hurlow | November 27, 2006

  3. Hey guys! Just checking in with you during some down time at the office. I love reading your insights and hearing about your journeys. Your experience sounds awesome and I’m still jealous. Are you sure you don’t want to start a caravan? I miss you “boys” and hope that everything continues to be eye-opening.

    Comment by Anitra | November 27, 2006


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